Wrap-Up | What I Read in April 2025

Hello friends!

I hope you’re doing amazing! You know the drill; it’s time for the monthly Wrap Up. Can you believe we’re already in May? This year is flying by!

It’s funny how I thought I wouldn’t be able to read much this month, but fortunately, I was able to still fit some reading here and there! Even though I really wanted to read certain books that I wasn’t able to (yet), I still think I read a good number of books this month!

I ended up reading 9 books in April: two I originally had for my April TBR, one is the last book of a series I started a few months ago, another one is the first book of a series I wanted to start months ago, and the remaining five were random books I grabbed during the month!

So all in all… it wasn’t that bad of a reading month! I guess the only thing I would want to be different is the fact that I didn’t focus on my TBR as much as I wanted, so I ended up picking random books that sounded interesting at the time. Again, nothing too serious! 🙂

So, enough rambling! Let’s take a look at the books I read in April, shall we?

This is the list I have to share with you today! Let’s take a closer look:

1. Spinning by Tillie Walden: 3/5⭐

I’ve been wanting to read a graphic novel again for a while now, and this was a perfect quick read for the job! The story was okay-ish.

Synopsis

“Poignant and captivating, Ignatz Award winner Tillie Walden’s powerful graphic memoir, Spinning, captures what it’s like to come of age, come out, and come to terms with leaving behind everything you used to know.
It was the same every morning. Wake up, grab the ice skates, and head to the rink while the world was still dark.
Weekends were spent in glitter and tights at competitions. Perform. Smile. And do it again.
She was good. She won. And she hated it.
For ten years, figure skating was Tillie Walden’s life. She woke before dawn for morning lessons, went straight to group practice after school, and spent weekends competing at ice rinks across the state. It was a central piece of her identity, her safe haven from the stress of school, bullies, and family. But over time, as she switched schools, got into art, and fell in love with her first girlfriend, she began to question how the close-minded world of figure skating fit in with the rest of her life, and whether all the work was worth it given the reality: that she, and her friends on the figure skating team, were nowhere close to Olympic hopefuls. It all led to one question: What was the point? The more Tillie thought about it, the more Tillie realized she’d outgrown her passion–and she finally needed to find her own voice.”

2. How to Ikigai by Tim Tamashiro: 3/5⭐

Well, this wasn’t my favorite book of the month for sure, but it wasn’t as bad as either. I picked this up randomly during the month, but to be honest, I didn’t get a lot from this book. It ended up being a little too repetitive and generic (assuming you’re already familiar with the concept). I personally think there are better books about the subject out there!

Synopsis

“Discover the secret to lasting happiness and longevity in this transformative self-help book based on the ancient Japanese, time-tested wisdom of Ikigai.
Find joy in life’s journey with Ikigai. This ancient wisdom from Okinawa, Japan, can illuminate your path to self-improvement. Okinawa, Japan is a tiny island south of the Japanese mainland where people live their life’s purpose every day. How to Ikigai explores the lifestyle choices that have led to an island full of fulfilled, long-living people.
Embrace longevity through the Ikigai philosophy. Learn to age gracefully, armed with the secrets of one of the longest-living communities on earth. By integrating Ikigai into your life, you foster an attitude of gratitude, infuse your days with happiness, and inspire purposeful living.
How to Ikigai explains a simple four-directions map for living a meaningful life. Do what you love, do what you’re good at, do what the world needs, and do what you can be rewarded for.
An engaging exploration of the Ikigai philosophy, offering profound insights into finding your life purposePractical steps for implementing Ikigai in your everyday life, paving the way for happiness and self-improvementPowerful narratives showcasing Ikigai in action, like the inspiring story of David Michiels.
If you liked books such as Awakening Your Ikigai, My Little Ikigai Journal, or  The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life, you’ll love How to Ikigai. Also, be sure to listen to Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson’s podcast exploring Ikigai with Tim Tamashiro.”

3. Butts: A Backstory by Heather Radke: 2.75/5⭐

I had high hopes for this book! I saw this book somewhere, and I thought the title was hilarious, so of course, I had to add it to my TBR! I like to read books about random topics, so I didn’t think too much about it when I decided to pick it up. The author warned in the beginning that this wouldn’t be an extensive science book about butts – which I was totally fine with, and I adapted my expectations while continuing reading the book. Now, with that said, this was a little disappointing. I was enjoying it at first, but as the book progressed, the author started inserting herself (and her opinions) more and more into the book. But to me that wasn’t the biggest issue – what I disliked most about this book is how it’s not really a book about butts. The chapters start with it as a topic (and kind of a justification of why the topic is being mentioned), but I noticed that the focus kept going to other things. I would describe this book more as a book about the female body throughout the years – and there’s also a lot about race too. I found some chapters fascinating and informative, for example Sara Baartman’s chapter, but other chapters like Miley Cyrus’s felt a little too biased and less relevant. Even though I wasn’t expecting a full-on science book, I still wished the author focused more on informing the reader, and kept the butt topic as a main focus.

Synopsis

“Whether we love them or hate them, think they’re sexy, think they’re strange, consider them too big, too small, or anywhere in between, humans have a complicated relationship with butts. It is a body part unique to humans, critical to our evolution and survival, and yet it has come to signify so much more: sex, desire, comedy, shame. A woman’s butt, in particular, is forever being assessed, criticized, and objectified, from anxious self-examinations trying on jeans in department store dressing rooms to enduring crass remarks while walking down a street or high school hallways. But why? In Butts: A Backstory, reporter, essayist, and RadioLab contributing editor Heather Radke is determined to find out.
Spanning nearly two centuries, this “whip-smart” (Publishers Weekly, starred review) cultural history takes us from the performance halls of 19th-century London to the aerobics studios of the 1980s, the music video set of Sir Mix-a-Lot’s “Baby Got Back” and the mountains of Arizona, where every year humans and horses race in a feat of gluteal endurance. Along the way, she meets evolutionary biologists who study how butts first developed; models whose measurements have defined jean sizing for millions of women; and the fitness gurus who created fads like “Buns of Steel.” She also examines the central importance of race through figures like Sarah Bartmann, once known as the “Venus Hottentot,” Josephine Baker, Jennifer Lopez, and other women of color whose butts have been idolized, envied, and despised.
Part deep dive reportage, part personal journey, part cabinet of curiosities, Butts is an entertaining, illuminating, and thoughtful examination of why certain silhouettes come in and out of fashion—and how larger ideas about race, control, liberation, and power affect our most private feelings about ourselves and others.”

4. Out of Control (Full Throttle #4) by K. Bromberg: 4/5⭐

As a conclusion to the series, this was great, but if we’re focusing on the book’s story itself… I wanted a bit more. Don’t get me wrong, I still enjoyed it, but since this book centers around one of the most talked-about characters from the previous installments – and especially a villain – I was expecting a little more… darkness? Like I said, I did like the story, but perhaps my high expectations got the best of me here! Still a good read.

Synopsis

“Every story needs a villain.
The arrogance. The conceit. The lone wolf.
Oliver Rossi is that person on the track.
And leave it to me… I’ve gone and fallen for him.
Rossi is his own worst enemy. He doesn’t care what people think or what’s expected of him. And he’s reached the pinnacle of his sport because of his bad boy ways.
He’s unpredictable and reckless on the track. He’s even worse off of it. After years of circling around each other, all it took was one night, one uncharacteristic act of chivalry, to know I wanted more with the man everyone hates.
Forget the warnings from my brother about his new teammate and the fallout from my family—he’s worth the risk.
With his job on the line and eyes always on us, secret trysts are all we allow ourselves.
It’s all fun and games until lust turns to love and for now begins to feel like not enough.
I want it all.
I want forever.
And I want it with Oliver Rossi.
But is Rossi willing to show the world he’s ready to move past his villain era so we can have our own happily ever after or will this whole thing spin out of control?”

5. Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins: 4.25/5⭐

I really liked this book! I wasn’t planning on reading it this month, but I needed a break between all the fantasy books I was reading, and this was a perfect fit at the time. My friend read this, and she said that it reminded her of me, so I was too curious not to give it a try! I actually really enjoyed this, and I found David to be a very inspiring person. I took valuable lessons from this book that I’m already applying in my life. Definitely recommend this gem!

Synopsis

“For David Goggins, childhood was a nightmare — poverty, prejudice, and physical abuse colored his days and haunted his nights. But through self-discipline, mental toughness, and hard work, Goggins transformed himself from a depressed, overweight young man with no future into a U.S. Armed Forces icon and one of the world’s top endurance athletes. The only man in history to complete elite training as a Navy SEAL, Army Ranger, and Air Force Tactical Air Controller, he went on to set records in numerous endurance events, inspiring Outside magazine to name him “The Fittest (Real) Man in America.”In Can’t Hurt Me, he shares his astonishing life story and reveals that most of us tap into only 40% of our capabilities. Goggins calls this The 40% Rule, and his story illuminates a path that anyone can follow to push past pain, demolish fear, and reach their full potential.”

6. The Only One Left by Riley Sager: 5/5⭐

This book was INSANE! I’m convinced Riley Sager can’t write a bad book. It’s crazy the number of plot twists this book has! I think it’s interesting the way this author creates stories that are so full of detail and with plenty of characters that the reader can’t trust. It’s safe to say Riley Sager has become my go-to thriller author, and I can’t recommend his books enough.

Synopsis

“At seventeen, Lenora Hope
Hung her sister with a rope
Now reduced to a schoolyard chant, the Hope family murders shocked the Maine coast one bloody night in 1929. While most people assume seventeen-year-old Lenora was responsible, the police were never able to prove it. Other than her denial after the killings, she has never spoken publicly about that night, nor has she set foot outside Hope’s End, the cliffside mansion where the massacre occurred.
Stabbed her father with a knife
Took her mother’s happy life
It’s now 1983, and home-health aide Kit McDeere arrives at a decaying Hope’s End to care for Lenora after her previous nurse fled in the middle of the night. In her seventies and confined to a wheelchair, Lenora was rendered mute by a series of strokes and can only communicate with Kit by tapping out sentences on an old typewriter. One night, Lenora uses it to make a tantalizing offer—I want to tell you everything.
“It wasn’t me,” Lenora said
But she’s the only one not dead
As Kit helps Lenora write about the events leading to the Hope family massacre, it becomes clear there’s more to the tale than people know. But when new details about her predecessor’s departure come to light, Kit starts to suspect Lenora might not be telling the complete truth—and that the seemingly harmless woman in her care could be far more dangerous than she first thought.”

7. Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone (Harry Potter #1) by J.K. Rowling: 5/5⭐

A book that needs no introduction! I read this book for the first time AGES ago (probably like about 15 years ago if I’m being honest), so it was time to read it again a refresh my memory. I mean, what else can I say? There’s no surprise here: of course I had a great time reading this book, and I can’t wait to start the second book, “Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets”!

Synopsis

“Harry Potter has never played a sport while flying on a broomstick. He’s never worn a Cloak of Invisibility, befriended a giant, or helped hatch a dragon. All Harry knows is a miserable life with the Dursleys, his horrible aunt and uncle, and their abominable son, Dudley. Harry’s room is a tiny cupboard under the stairs, and he hasn’t had a birthday party in ten years.
But all that is about to change when a mysterious letter arrives by owl messenger: A letter with an invitation to a wonderful place he never dreamed existed. There he finds not only friends, aerial sports, and magic around every corner, but a great destiny that’s been waiting for him – if Harry can survive the encounter.”

8. The Raven Boys (The Raven Cycle #1) by Maggie Stiefvater: 3.25/5⭐

Okay, maybe I’ve been a little harsh with this book since I started rejecting it from the beginning. To be honest, it’s not that I loved this story, but it wasn’t as bad as I thought it was. I still find the supernatural aspect of this book not that interesting, but I actually enjoyed the characters and their relationships with each other. I’m glad I didn’t give up on this, so let’s see how the rest of the series goes.

Synopsis

““There are only two reasons a non-seer would see a spirit on St. Mark’s Eve,” Neeve said. “Either you’re his true love… or you killed him.”
It is freezing in the churchyard, even before the dead arrive.
Every year, Blue Sargent stands next to her clairvoyant mother as the soon-to-be dead walk past. Blue herself never sees them—not until this year, when a boy emerges from the dark and speaks directly to her.
His name is Gansey, and Blue soon discovers that he is a rich student at Aglionby, the local private school. Blue has a policy of staying away from Aglionby boys. Known as Raven Boys, they can only mean trouble.
But Blue is drawn to Gansey, in a way she can’t entirely explain. He has it all—family money, good looks, devoted friends—but he’s looking for much more than that. He is on a quest that has encompassed three other Raven Boys: Adam, the scholarship student who resents all the privilege around him; Ronan, the fierce soul who ranges from anger to despair; and Noah, the taciturn watcher of the four, who notices many things but says very little.
For as long as she can remember, Blue has been warned that she will cause her true love to die. She never thought this would be a problem. But now, as her life becomes caught up in the strange and sinister world of the Raven Boys, she’s not so sure anymore.”

9. Redefining Anxiety by Dr. John Delony: 4.5/5⭐

This was another book I picked up randomly this month! It was a quick read, but I really appreciated Dr. John’s perspective on the topic. I found this small book insightful and genuinely helpful for anyone struggling with anxiety – I just wish it had been a full-length book! I would definitely recommend it to readers facing the same challenge.

Synopsis

“Anxiety is real—but it isn’t the end of your story. Dr. John Delony knows what anxiety feels like. He’s walked that dark road himself, but he found light and hope on the other side of it. Bringing together his own journey and two decades of counseling and research, he walks you John will show you that most of what you’ve heard about anxiety is wrong. Things While mental health is complex, our culture has made anxiety into something it’s not. For the majority of people who face anxiety, the truth is simpler than we anxiety is an alarm . It’s a signal—nothing more and nothing less. Anxiety is simply our body’s way of telling us something is wrong. If we stop and listen, we can calm the alarm and move forward into healing and hope.”

As usual, I’ll be posting the reviews for these books, so stay tuned!

What about you guys? How was your reading month? Let me know in the comments! Thank you for reading friends, I’ll catch you guys later!

TBR | May 2025

Hello friends!

I hope you’re all doing well! May is right around the corner, which means it’s time for me to share my TBR for the next month!

If you read my latest post on How I Create My Monthly TBR Lists, you already know my magical formula to create a fantastic reading month that fits me, my reading goals, and my available time. This is the formula I’m planning on sticking to for this year:

📖 At least 1 paperback
🎧 2 audiobooks
📱 1 ebook
📚 1 manga volume

Other rules include: reading 3 different genres, 1 book from a series, and 1 book from my 30 Oldest Books on my TBR list. It seems like a lot, but it’s really not!

This month’s lineup is focused mostly on series. I’ll be starting a couple of new series in May and continuing a few more! To be specific, there will be 5 different series and only one standalone in May’s TBR. They’re mostly romance and fantasy series, but you’ll see that in a second!

Also… I’m not super happy about it, but I need to tell you this as well: if you look closely, I have 3 books here that were added to my previous TBR. I had to add these again because last month I didn’t focus a lot on my TBR, so this bottlenecked all the current series I’m reading. So yeah, I’m not super happy about repeating books in my TBR, but this was a necessity this month.

So without further ado, here are the books I’m planning on reading in May:

Yup, this is the list I have to share with you today! Let’s take a closer look:

1. Twilight (The Twilight Saga #1) by Stephanie Meyer

Can you believe I never read this series? I’ve wanted to read it for a very long time, but I never remember it even exists – in fact, it wasn’t even part of my Goodreads TBR, which is crazy! In May, I want to finally give it a go and read it! All I know of Bella’s story comes from the movie adaptations, but I’m sure there’s more to the story for me to learn. I’m very excited about this one!

Synopsis

“When 17 year old Isabella Swan moves to Forks, Washington to live with her father she expects that her new life will be as dull as the town.
But in spite of her awkward manner and low expectations, she finds that her new classmates are drawn to this pale, dark-haired new girl in town. But not, it seems, the Cullen family. These five adopted brothers and sisters obviously prefer their own company and will make no exception for Bella.
Bella is convinced that Edward Cullen in particular hates her, but she feels a strange attraction to him, although his hostility makes her feel almost physically ill. He seems determined to push her away – until, that is, he saves her life from an out of control car.
Bella will soon discover that there is a very good reason for Edward’s coldness. He, and his family, are vampires – and he knows how dangerous it is for others to get too close.”

2. Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (Harry Potter #2) by J.K. Rowling

And the Harry Potter fun continues! Now that I read the first book in the series, I’m excited to keep going and move on to the next book, “Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets”. I’m loving this! Is anyone surprised?

Synopsis

“The Dursleys were so mean and hideous that summer that all Harry Potter wanted was to get back to the Hogwarts School for Witchcraft and Wizardry. But just as he’s packing his bags, Harry receives a warning from a strange, impish creature named Dobby who says that if Harry Potter returns to Hogwarts, disaster will strike.
And strike it does. For in Harry’s second year at Hogwarts, fresh torments and horrors arise, including an outrageously stuck-up new professor, Gilderoy Lockhart, a spirit named Moaning Myrtle who haunts the girls’ bathroom, and the unwanted attentions of Ron Weasley’s younger sister, Ginny. But each of these seem minor annoyances when the real trouble begins, and someone, or something, starts turning Hogwarts students to stone. Could it be Draco Malfoy, a more poisonous rival than ever? Could it possibly be Hagrid, whose mysterious past is finally told? Or could it be the one everyone at Hogwarts most suspects: Harry Potter himself?”

3. The Dream Thieves (The Raven Cycle #2) by Maggie Stiefvater

Another Raven Cycle book for May… and this is one of the books I’m a little behind! As you know by now, I’m not super interested in the story. I’ve decided to continue reading it nonetheless. Personally, I find the spirits/fantasy aspect of this book a little weird – I don’t mind the topics as they are, but the plot created using them is not my favorite. With that said, I’m loving the friend group and their dynamics! Let’s see how this book goes; maybe it will get a little better.

Synopsis

“Now that the ley lines around Cabeswater have been woken, nothing for Ronan, Gansey, Blue, and Adam will be the same. Ronan, for one, is falling more and more deeply into his dreams, and his dreams are intruding more and more into waking life. Meanwhile, some very sinister people are looking for some of the same pieces of the Cabeswater puzzle that Gansey is after…”

4. Done and Dusted (Rebel Blue Ranch #1) by Lyla Sage

Another series I’m curious about! I’m not sure if this is in the present or not – the cover sure doesn’t look like it is, but I’m not 100% sure after reading the synopsis. Still, I’m excited to find out since this series has become so popular! We’ll see.

Synopsis

“She’s off-limits, but he’s never been good at following the rules.
For the first time in her life, Clementine “Emmy” Ryder has no idea what she’s doing. She’s accomplished everything on her to-do list. She left her small hometown of Meadowlark, Wyoming; went to college; and made a career for herself by doing her favorite thing: riding horses. But after an accident makes it impossible for her to get back into the saddle, she has no choice but to return to the hometown she always wanted to escape.
Luke Brooks is Meadowlark’s most notorious bad boy, bar owner, and bachelor. He’s also the unofficial fifth member of the Ryder family. As Emmy’s older brother’s best friend, Luke spent most of his childhood antagonizing her. It’s been years since he’s seen her, but when she walks into his bar and back into his life, he can’t take his eyes off her. Despite his better judgment, he wants to do a whole lot more than just look at her.
Emmy’s got too much on her mind to think about romance. And Luke knows he should stay away from his best friend’s younger sister. But what if Luke is just what Emmy needs to get her spark back? Or will they both go up in flames?”

5. The Name Drop by Susan Lee

My only standalone of the month is right here! As I was telling you, this month is going to be a little on the heavier side since it’s mostly composed of series, so a light standalone was very necessary. To be honest, I don’t know much about the plot – all I know is that it’s a YA romance perfect for K-drama fans, and honestly, that’s all I need to be sold on it!

Synopsis

“When Elijah Ri arrives in New York City for an internship at his father’s massive tech company, Haneul Corporation, he expects the royal treatment that comes with being the future CEO—even if that’s the last thing he wants. But instead, he finds himself shuffled into a group of overworked, unpaid interns, all sharing a shoebox apartment for the summer.
When Jessica Lee arrives in New York City, she’s eager to make the most of her internship at Haneul Corporation, even if she’s at the bottom of the corporate ladder. But she’s shocked to be introduced as the new executive-in-training intern with a gorgeous brownstone all to herself.
It doesn’t take long for Elijah and Jessica to discover the source of the mistake: they share the same Korean name. But they decide to stay switched—so Elijah can have a relaxing summer away from his controlling dad while Jessica can make the connections she desperately needs for college recommendations.
As Elijah and Jessica work together to keep up the charade, a spark develops between them. Can they avoid discovery—and total disaster—with their feelings and futures on the line?”

6. Death Note, Vol 10: Deletion by Tsugumi Ohba

Another series I’m behind on, and I’m also trying to finally get to it this month. On a positive note, I’m almost finished with this series – I’m so ready to move on, if I’m being honest! One more Death Note volume to be read this next month.

Synopsis

“With Near openly suspecting the new L of being Kira and sowing doubt in the hearts of the taskforce members, Light is once again forced to pass the Death Note on to another to take the heat off himself. But this time, Kira chooses a disciple from among his true believers. With no way to contact his successor directly, Light must rely on his faithful follower’s adherence to Kira’s goals. Will this newest move bring Light’s ideal world closer to reality? Or will losing control of the Death Note spell Light’s doom?”

Aaaand there you have it friends, my TBR list! As usual, I hope you liked this post! Let me know if you have any recommendations for me. You know I’m always grateful for those!

Thank you for reading, have a great day!

Review | Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins

“Our culture has become hooked on the quick-fix, the life hack, efficiency. Everyone is on the hunt for that simple action algorithm that nets maximum profit with the least amount of effort. There’s no denying this attitude may get you some of the trappings of success, if you’re lucky, but it will not lead to a calloused mind or self-mastery. If you want to master the mind and remove your governor, you’ll have to become addicted to hard work. Because passion and obsession, even talent, are only useful tools if you have the work ethic to back them up.” 4.25/5 stars!

For David Goggins, childhood was a nightmare — poverty, prejudice, and physical abuse colored his days and haunted his nights. But through self-discipline, mental toughness, and hard work, Goggins transformed himself from a depressed, overweight young man with no future into a U.S. Armed Forces icon and one of the world’s top endurance athletes. The only man in history to complete elite training as a Navy SEAL, Army Ranger, and Air Force Tactical Air Controller, he went on to set records in numerous endurance events, inspiring Outside magazine to name him “The Fittest (Real) Man in America.”In Can’t Hurt Me, he shares his astonishing life story and reveals that most of us tap into only 40% of our capabilities. Goggins calls this The 40% Rule, and his story illuminates a path that anyone can follow to push past pain, demolish fear, and reach their full potential.

I absolutely loved this book! I first became curious about it because a close friend read it about a year ago and told me the author reminded her of me — so, of course, I immediately added it to my TBR.
While I kind of see what she meant, the truth is, we’re nothing alike! David Goggins is a truly inspiring and one-of-a-kind person, relentlessly committed to self-improvement and pushing past his own limits. I can honestly say this is one of the most fascinating memoirs I’ve ever read.
The book begins with David talking about his childhood and the abuse he endured, which deeply affected him from an early age. And it didn’t stop there — even after running away with his mother, he faced more trauma that left lasting scars. He went through a lot! But one day, he made the decision to change — to be better, to do better — and he hasn’t looked back since. He went on to become a Navy SEAL, an ultramarathoner, and a powerful example of what it means to constantly challenge and outgrow yourself.
I really connected with his mindset – well, not as strongly as him. obviously. While I admire him for sharing his story so openly, I do think only a very small number of people will push themselves as far as he has. With that said, the concepts he shares are incredibly valuable. I especially liked the ideas of the “cookie jar” and the 40% rule. There are also some fantastic quotes throughout the book — something I really appreciated.
The writing is solid and easy to follow. I listened to the audiobook, which included a bonus mini-podcast after each chapter where David and his co-writer dive deeper into the content. That extra layer made the experience even more insightful, and I’m really glad I got that version!
I’d definitely recommend this to other non-fiction lovers who enjoy inspiring memoirs — this one is absolutely worth checking out!

Review | How to Ikigai by Tim Tamashiro

“The key to Ikigai is to do what you are meant to do. You have gifts that are begging to be put to good use. Understanding Ikigai is a way to put your gifts to work, so you can enjoy their benefits.” 3/5 stars!

Discover the secret to lasting happiness and longevity in this transformative self-help book based on the ancient Japanese, time-tested wisdom of Ikigai.

Find joy in life’s journey with Ikigai. This ancient wisdom from Okinawa, Japan, can illuminate your path to self-improvement. Okinawa, Japan is a tiny island south of the Japanese mainland where people live their life’s purpose every day. How to Ikigai explores the lifestyle choices that have led to an island full of fulfilled, long-living people.

Embrace longevity through the Ikigai philosophy. Learn to age gracefully, armed with the secrets of one of the longest-living communities on earth. By integrating Ikigai into your life, you foster an attitude of gratitude, infuse your days with happiness, and inspire purposeful living.

How to Ikigai explains a simple four-directions map for living a meaningful life. Do what you love, do what you’re good at, do what the world needs, and do what you can be rewarded for.

In this groundbreaking self-help book, you’ll

An engaging exploration of the Ikigai philosophy, offering profound insights into finding your life purposePractical steps for implementing Ikigai in your everyday life, paving the way for happiness and self-improvementPowerful narratives showcasing Ikigai in action, like the inspiring story of David Michiels

If you liked books such as Awakening Your Ikigai, My Little Ikigai Journal, or  The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life, you’ll love How to Ikigai. Also, be sure to listen to Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson’s podcast exploring Ikigai with Tim Tamashiro.

I have to admit, I’m not super impressed with this book. I picked this up randomly, and I didn’t have any expectations about it, so I wasn’t that disappointed about not getting a lot from this book.
I just think the book is a little repetitive and too generic. The author shares a lot of stories about other people finding their Ikigai… and that’s basically it. The topic is not developed with depth, so we keep reading the same thing over and over again.
But I do appreciate the tone of the book, which is hopeful and very positive! I think the goal the author intended was mostly to motivate you to find your own purpose and get inspired by other people’s stories. I just don’t think it’s a very informative book to read if you’re new to the concept.
Now, would I recommend this book? I personally think there are better books about the subject out there, so I wouldn’t tell you that this is a must-read if you want to learn more about Ikigai. I would probably recommend the book by Hector Garcia if you’re looking for a more informative book; I really liked that one.

Review | On the Edge (Full Throttle #2) by K. Bromberg

“If we’re going to fake it, is it so bad if we enjoy it while we do?” 4.5/5 stars!

Attention! This book contains: fake dating, legacies, parties, deals, internships, wallflowers, new contracts, and… only one bed!

Surely this can’t be the only solution to overhaul my tarnished rep – faking a romance with the good girl intern?

But that’s what my agent says. Just a few months of taming my ways—of shedding Formula 1’s party boy image—will land me a lifetime branding deal. One I desperately need.

The key condition?

Pretend I’m madly in love with my new girlfriend. The quiet wallflower who I figured wouldn’t put me in my place. Yeah. This girl is anything but that.

Maddix Hart is defiant and intelligent. Loyal and real. Determined and sexy. And damn it to hell, before I know it, she’s in my head, in our bed . . . and if I’m not careful, she’ll see there’s more to me than the man I show the public. She’ll discover the man I hide from the world. The one who struggles to live up to the unrealistic expectations that should never have been mine.

All I have to do is make sure no one sees the truth behind our farce.

But instead, I let my heart get involved. I begin to believe the lie. And now with everything on the line—the deal, a championship, us—am I willing to risk it all to make her see what the rest of the world believes? That we belong together.

A spicy, only-one-bed Formula 1 romance.

I loved this! I wasn’t very excited to continue this series after reading the first book, but I was surprised by how much fun I had reading this.
The main characters made this book shine because they were very likable – if you compare them to the first couple in the previous book, you’ll see a big difference, in my opinion. Cruz was a great male lead – and I’m pretty sure the inspiration for this character was Carlos Sainz (but I could be wrong) -, and I also really liked Maddix as the female lead because even though she was a bit of a wallflower, she still had a backbone! I really liked them together and their banter. As far as tropes go, I would describe this as a fake dating trope and a forced proximity trope – also, there’s a sharing-one-bed trope, which is always a treat for a romance reader!
I also enjoyed reading about the relationship between the lead and his father. They had a very difficult dynamic, so it was an interesting addition to the mix.
The writing was great, and compared the the previous book, this had a better pace and plot structure. I really liked how the author explored their connection and made it into a beautiful story.
This was way better than the first book in my opinion – the plot was better, the characters were better, the romance was top-notch… Can’t wait for the next book.

Review | Off the Grid (Full Throttle #1) by K. Bromberg

“We’re a fucked-up pair, but my broken makes you whole. Your broken has made me whole. Now it’s time to let those breaks heal. For the scars to fade like nothing ever was.” 3/5 stars!

Attention! This book contains: car crashes, picking up girls in bars, house parties, marketing ideas, terrible diseases, baggy clothes, sexual assault, and big legacies.

Spencer Riggs is sexy, intense and driven in his pursuit of all things racing.
That pursuit now includes me.

The cocky bad boy of racing struts onto my father’s team like he owns it. One look from him and I can tell he thinks he owns the boss’s daughter too.

I’m determined to resist that panty-melting smile he keeps flashing my way. I have no time for distractions. Fulfilling a last promise to my father is my only goal.

Race after race, city after city, I do my best to keep it professional. I swear I do.But one night after a hard-fought win, we’re celebrating, and Riggs claims his own sweet victory. Me.

His sizzling touch owns my body, but it’s the broken man beneath the public façade who slowly wins my heart.

Before I realize it, Riggs is the one I’m willing to risk everything for. Even if it means breaking a promise. But with our hearts on the line, will he risk everything for me?

A steamy, forbidden sports romance from New York Times bestselling author K. Bromberg!

This was my first time reading a Formula 1 romance book, so I had high hopes when I picked this book up. Overall, the story was a little… weird. There was something slightly off about this story that I can’t put my finger on yet. So let’s talk about it!
After some thought, my conclusion is that I struggled with caring about the characters and the plot, if I’m being honest. Even though I think the characters were okay-ish – besides the guy being a douche, them being bland and not having chemistry as a couple -, they weren’t the biggest issue here. I think what makes this book so awkward is the number of weird events that move the story forward. For example, that bar scene where he hits on her in a bar felt unnatural and weird – plus the way he talks about her and how wearing baggy clothes makes her “ugly”. The book has so many weird and awkward moments like that.
To add to the mix, the pacing felt off, the romance was meh, there were missing true connection moments, the banter was… not that interesting.
If you’re into the workplace romance type of trope, you might enjoy this in some capacity. I’ve now read more books in this series, so I definitely say to continue reading because the next stories are way more interesting.

Review | Butts: A Backstory by Heather Radke

“Garment makers are rarely in the business of making clothes that will work for actual people. Instead, they cater to a fantasy of who the customer hopes to be.” 2.75/5 stars!

Attention! This book contains: big butts, small butts… and all butts in between!

Whether we love them or hate them, think they’re sexy, think they’re strange, consider them too big, too small, or anywhere in between, humans have a complicated relationship with butts. It is a body part unique to humans, critical to our evolution and survival, and yet it has come to signify so much more: sex, desire, comedy, shame. A woman’s butt, in particular, is forever being assessed, criticized, and objectified, from anxious self-examinations trying on jeans in department store dressing rooms to enduring crass remarks while walking down a street or high school hallways. But why? In Butts: A Backstory, reporter, essayist, and RadioLab contributing editor Heather Radke is determined to find out.

Spanning nearly two centuries, this “whip-smart” (Publishers Weekly, starred review) cultural history takes us from the performance halls of 19th-century London to the aerobics studios of the 1980s, the music video set of Sir Mix-a-Lot’s “Baby Got Back” and the mountains of Arizona, where every year humans and horses race in a feat of gluteal endurance. Along the way, she meets evolutionary biologists who study how butts first developed; models whose measurements have defined jean sizing for millions of women; and the fitness gurus who created fads like “Buns of Steel.” She also examines the central importance of race through figures like Sarah Bartmann, once known as the “Venus Hottentot,” Josephine Baker, Jennifer Lopez, and other women of color whose butts have been idolized, envied, and despised.

Part deep dive reportage, part personal journey, part cabinet of curiosities, Butts is an entertaining, illuminating, and thoughtful examination of why certain silhouettes come in and out of fashion—and how larger ideas about race, control, liberation, and power affect our most private feelings about ourselves and others.

I saw this book somewhere, and I thought the title was hilarious, so of course, I had to add it to my TBR! I like to read books about random topics, so I didn’t think too much about it when I decided to pick it up.
We are warned in the beginning. The author especifically says this book is not an extensive science book about butts – which I was totally fine with, and I adapted my expectations while continuing reading the book.
Now, with that said… this was a little disappointing. I was enjoying it at first, but as the book progressed, the author started inserting herself (and her opinions) more and more into the book. But to me that wasn’t the biggest issue I had with this book – what I disliked most is how this is not really a book about butts. The chapters start with it as a topic (and kind of a justification of why the topic is being mentioned), but I noticed that the focus kept going to other things. I would describe this book more as a book about the female body throughout the years – and there’s also a lot about race too.
I found some chapters fascinating and informative, for example, Sara Baartman’s chapter – but other chapters like Miley Cyrus’s felt a little too biased and less relevant.
Even though I wasn’t expecting a full-on science book, I still wished the author focused more on informing the reader, and kept the butt topic as a main focus. I personally wouldn’t recommend this book – I’m sure there are better books on the subject.

Wrap-Up | What I Read in March 2025

Hello friends!

I hope you’re doing well and I hope you’ve been reading great books – because that means you are amazing! We’re currently at the beginning of the month, so, as usual, I’m bringing you my monthly Wrap Up.

I didn’t read a lot this month, but I’ve had a wonderful time reading in March, and I’ve read books I really enjoyed. Today’s list is on the smaller side, with 2 books read in total. I blame my current lack of time! Still, I was able to read the third book from a romance series I started a couple of months ago, and I also read a stand-alone I’ve been dying to pick up for years now.

Again, I didn’t read as much this month, but I’m still happy with what I read. Ok, let’s take a look at the books, shall we?

This is the list I have to share with you today! Let’s take a closer look:

1. Push (Precious #1) by Sapphire: 4.5/5⭐

I was sooo close to rating this book a 5-star read, but the ending made me lower my rating. I personally don’t mind open endings, but this book ends like the author just got tired of writing because it ended very abruptly – and I didn’t like that. Other than that, the book was a 5-star read for me, it was absolutely heartbreaking but full of hope. There are many difficult topics here, but the one that made me the most uncomfortable was the constant sexual abuse from BOTH her parents – that made me sick to my stomach. The writing was at times a little difficult to keep up with since Precious writes like she talks, but I appreciate the author improving her writing as the book progresses – that was a nice touch! It was a very sad story (and a little more graphic than I thought it would be if I’m being honest), but Precious was a very inspiring character, and you have no choice but to root for her! Incredible book.

Synopsis

“Precious Jones, an illiterate sixteen-year-old, has up until now been invisible to the father who rapes her and the mother who batters her and to the authorities who dismiss her as just one more of Harlem’s casualties. But when Precious, pregnant with a second child by her father, meets a determined and radical teacher, we follow her on a journey of education and enlightenment as she learns not only how to write about her life, but how to make it truly her own for the first time.”

2. Over the Limit (Full Throttle #3) by K. Bromberg: 4.5/5⭐

This was probably my favorite from the entire series! It was incredibly sweet, and I loved this couple’s chemistry. And you know the best part? The girl was dating another driver (before she got together with the main character in this book) that acted like a bit of a villain… and the next book is about him and his love story! I’m very curious to read about his story next, knowing that he appeared several times in previous books and that other characters don’t like him.

Synopsis

“You don’t mess around with a teammate’s ex. Ever. But that’s easier said than done when it comes to Blair Carmichael. She’s sexy, intelligent, gorgeous, and one hundred percent off-limits.
And I’ve never fallen harder.
But I can’t touch (when I most definitely want to).
My team’s success and my chance at a new contract for next season depend on me keeping my hands on the wheel. And off her curves.
As the season progresses, we secretly steal as much time as we can together—in hotel rooms, after races, anywhere we can’t be found out. A real romance out in the open would risk her job in the industry, her reputation, and my image–not to mention my strained relationship with my teammate.
I’ve lived my whole life with one mantra. Team first. What I want outside of my racing career hasn’t factored in.
Until now.
Until Blair.
She deserves the world and I plan on giving it to her. Even if I have to walk away from the biggest contract of my career.
A forbidden, Formula 1 romance.”
Not even when she begs me to.”

As usual, I’ll be posting the reviews for these books soon.

What about you guys? How was your reading month? Let me know in the comments! Thank you for reading friends, I’ll catch you guys later!

TBR | April 2025

Hello friends!

How are you all doing on this fine, beautiful day? April is just around the corner, which means it’s time for me to share my TBR for the month!

If you read my latest post on How I Create My Monthly TBR Lists, you already know my magical formula to create a fantastic reading month that fits me, my reading goals, and my available time. This is the formula I’m planning on sticking to for this year:

📖 At least 1 paperback
🎧 2 audiobooks
📱 1 ebook
📚 1 manga volume

Other rules include: reading 3 different genres, 1 book from a series, and 1 book from my 30 Oldest Books on my TBR list. It seems like a lot, but it’s really not!

This month’s lineup is looking amazing, but I had to make a last-minute change with one of the books! The original plan was to read the last book of the “Full Throttle” series, “Out of Control”, this month… but I couldn’t wait, so I picked it up immediately after I finished the third book in the series, “Over the Limit”. This means I removed it from my original April TBR! But since I have a ton of books I want to read, this was obviously not an issue and I found a replacement quickly. 🙂

Now that I finished putting together my TBR, let me tell you all about it! I’ve got books from four different series: one I’ll be finishing soon, two I’m in the middle of, and one brand-new addition to the mix! Plus, I also have random non-fiction with a pretty quirky theme and a YA romance added to the mix. So as you see, you’ll find a lot of series this month!

So without further ado, here are the books I’m planning on reading:

This is the list I have to share with you today! Let’s take a closer look:

1. Butts: A Backstory by Heather Radke

What a way to start this list, don’t you agree? I know what you’re probably thinking: “Neide, are you seriously going to read a book about butts?” – and my answer is simple, dear friend: “Absolutely“! It’s no secret I like to read random books about random topics occasionally, and I’ve had this book on my TBR for a while now. Since I was looking for a non-fiction book to add to my monthly TBR… why not grab this one (I mean the book, not the butt)? To be completely honest with you, I have no idea what to expect with this read, but I’m hoping I’ll at least learn something new! I’m pretty sure I’ve read weirder books… I think?

Synopsis

“Whether we love them or hate them, think they’re sexy, think they’re strange, consider them too big, too small, or anywhere in between, humans have a complicated relationship with butts. It is a body part unique to humans, critical to our evolution and survival, and yet it has come to signify so much more: sex, desire, comedy, shame. A woman’s butt, in particular, is forever being assessed, criticized, and objectified, from anxious self-examinations trying on jeans in department store dressing rooms to enduring crass remarks while walking down a street or high school hallways. But why? In Butts: A Backstory, reporter, essayist, and RadioLab contributing editor Heather Radke is determined to find out.
Spanning nearly two centuries, this “whip-smart” (Publishers Weekly, starred review) cultural history takes us from the performance halls of 19th-century London to the aerobics studios of the 1980s, the music video set of Sir Mix-a-Lot’s “Baby Got Back” and the mountains of Arizona, where every year humans and horses race in a feat of gluteal endurance. Along the way, she meets evolutionary biologists who study how butts first developed; models whose measurements have defined jean sizing for millions of women; and the fitness gurus who created fads like “Buns of Steel.” She also examines the central importance of race through figures like Sarah Bartmann, once known as the “Venus Hottentot,” Josephine Baker, Jennifer Lopez, and other women of color whose butts have been idolized, envied, and despised.
Part deep dive reportage, part personal journey, part cabinet of curiosities, Butts is an entertaining, illuminating, and thoughtful examination of why certain silhouettes come in and out of fashion—and how larger ideas about race, control, liberation, and power affect our most private feelings about ourselves and others.”

2. Hunting Adaline (Cat & Mouse #2) by H.D. Carlton

In April, I’ll be reading the second book in the “Cat & Mouse” series! Let me tell you, my friend… this series is absolutely INTENSE and CRAZY. I have no idea what to expect, but I’m really curious to see how it all wraps up!

Synopsis

“The conclusion to the Cat and Mouse Duet is here…
The Diamond
Death walks alongside me,
But the reaper is no match for me.
I’m trapped in a world full of monsters dressed as men, and those who aren’t as they seem.
They won’t keep me forever.
I no longer recognize the person I’ve become,
And I’m fighting to find my way back to the beast who hunts me in the night.
They call me a diamond,
But they’ve only created an angel of death.
The Hunter
I was born a predator,
With ruthlessness ingrained in my bones.
When what’s mine is stolen from me in the night,
Like a diamond hidden within a fortress,
I find that I can no longer contain the beast.
Blood will paint the ground as I tear apart this world to find her.
And bring her back to where she belongs.
No one will escape my wrath,
Especially not those who have betrayed me.”

3. Blue Lily, Lily Blue (The Raven Cycle #3) by Maggie Stiefvater

Honestly, I’m not loving this series, and I can’t quite understand how it has so many great reviews. I’m starting to think nostalgia plays a big role for a lot of readers. To me, it feels a bit dull and filled with odd elements – but I still want to see it through to the end, just to get the full picture. We’ll see how it goes!

Synopsis

“The third installment in the all-new series from the #1 NEW YORK TIMES bestselling author Maggie Stiefvater!
Blue Sargent has found things. For the first time in her life, she has friends she can trust, a group to which she can belong. The Raven Boys have taken her in as one of their own. Their problems have become hers, and her problems have become theirs.
The trick with found things, though, is how easily they can be lost.
Friends can betray.
Mothers can disappear.
Visions can mislead.
Certainties can unravel.”

4. Death Note, Vol 10: Deletion by Tsugumi Ohba

One more Death Note volume on the horizon! I can see the finish line guys!

Synopsis

“With Near openly suspecting the new L of being Kira and sowing doubt in the hearts of the taskforce members, Light is once again forced to pass the Death Note on to another to take the heat off himself. But this time, Kira chooses a disciple from among his true believers. With no way to contact his successor directly, Light must rely on his faithful follower’s adherence to Kira’s goals. Will this newest move bring Light’s ideal world closer to reality? Or will losing control of the Death Note spell Light’s doom?”

5. The Name Drop by Susan Lee

Like I was saying, this spot was originally reserved for the fourth and final book in the “Full Throttle” series, but I just couldn’t resist and ended up reading it right after finishing the third! Since that left this spot open, I went through my romance TBR (because I still wanted something in the same vein) and stumbled upon this gem. To be honest, I don’t know much about the plot – all I know is that it’s a YA romance perfect for K-drama fans, and honestly, that’s all I need to be sold on it!

Synopsis

“When Elijah Ri arrives in New York City for an internship at his father’s massive tech company, Haneul Corporation, he expects the royal treatment that comes with being the future CEO—even if that’s the last thing he wants. But instead, he finds himself shuffled into a group of overworked, unpaid interns, all sharing a shoebox apartment for the summer.
When Jessica Lee arrives in New York City, she’s eager to make the most of her internship at Haneul Corporation, even if she’s at the bottom of the corporate ladder. But she’s shocked to be introduced as the new executive-in-training intern with a gorgeous brownstone all to herself.
It doesn’t take long for Elijah and Jessica to discover the source of the mistake: they share the same Korean name. But they decide to stay switched—so Elijah can have a relaxing summer away from his controlling dad while Jessica can make the connections she desperately needs for college recommendations.
As Elijah and Jessica work together to keep up the charade, a spark develops between them. Can they avoid discovery—and total disaster—with their feelings and futures on the line?”

6. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone (Harry Potter #1) by J.K. Rowling

It’s funny how this is the book I’m most excited about! I started the Harry Potter series a couple of decades ago (which is wild to think about), but I never actually finished it. If I remember correctly, I stopped at the fourth book – and for some reason, I never picked it up again!
Now, I really want to give the books a fair chance and experience this incredible story that stole my heart through the movies. Even though I already know most of what happens, I’m beyond excited to finally dive back in!

Synopsis

“Harry Potter has never played a sport while flying on a broomstick. He’s never worn a Cloak of Invisibility, befriended a giant, or helped hatch a dragon. All Harry knows is a miserable life with the Dursleys, his horrible aunt and uncle, and their abominable son, Dudley. Harry’s room is a tiny cupboard under the stairs, and he hasn’t had a birthday party in ten years.
But all that is about to change when a mysterious letter arrives by owl messenger: A letter with an invitation to a wonderful place he never dreamed existed. There he finds not only friends, aerial sports, and magic around every corner, but a great destiny that’s been waiting for him – if Harry can survive the encounter.”

Aaaand there you have it friends, my TBR list! As usual, I hope you liked this post! Let me know if you have any recommendations for me. You know I’m always grateful for those!

Thank you for reading, have a great day!

Review | The Myth of Normal by Gabor Maté

“In the most health-obsessed society ever, all is not well.” 5/5 stars!

Attention! This book contains: trauma, childhood memories, disease, oppressive beliefs, pregnancies, cancer, addiction… and hope.

By the acclaimed author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, a groundbreaking investigation into the causes of illness, a bracing critique of how our society breeds disease, and a pathway to health and healing.

In this revolutionary book, renowned physician Gabor Maté eloquently dissects how in Western countries that pride themselves on their healthcare systems, chronic illness and general ill health are on the rise. Nearly 70 percent of Americans are on at least one prescription drug; more than half take two. In Canada, every fifth person has high blood pressure. In Europe, hypertension is diagnosed in more than 30 percent of the population. And everywhere, adolescent mental illness is on the rise. So what is really “normal” when it comes to health?

Over four decades of clinical experience, Maté has come to recognize the prevailing understanding of “normal” as false, neglecting the roles that trauma and stress, and the pressures of modern-day living, exert on our bodies and our minds at the expense of good health. For all our expertise and technological sophistication, Western medicine often fails to treat the whole person, ignoring how today’s culture stresses the body, burdens the immune system, and undermines emotional balance. Now Maté brings his perspective to the great untangling of common myths about what makes us sick, connects the dots between the maladies of individuals and the declining soundness of society—and offers a compassionate guide for health and healing. Co-written with his son Daniel, The Myth of Normal is Maté’s most ambitious and urgent book yet.

I can’t even begin to tell you how much I loved this book. It was an eye-opening and thought-provoking read! Dr. Gabor Maté, along with his son Daniel Maté, does a great job of breaking down how trauma and illness develop in a toxic culture, and how society is failing us in this regard. The book is packed with research, real-life stories (including his own personal experiences with traumatic events), and so many eye-opening insights that made me reflect on my own upbringing.
Some of my absolute favorite parts were the chapters on addiction, pregnancy (everything from delivery to postpartum), and cancer near the end—those completely blew my mind! I also really loved the exercise section at the end of the book. It gives you practical, simple steps to help you feel whole again, which makes the reader feel hopeful and empowered. The book does such a great job of normalizing trauma and showing that it’s something we all experience in different ways. It’s definitely one of those books you’ll want to read slowly and take notes on because there’s a lot to absorb!
I know some reviewers have said there’s a lot of parent blaming in the book, but honestly, I don’t think that’s fair. Yes, it acknowledges that our upbringing shapes us in different ways (some good, some bad), but the author makes it clear that our parents did the best they could with the knowledge they had. It’s not about pointing fingers—it’s about understanding the bigger picture. Personally, I really appreciate that approach since I prefer looking at it realistically!
All in all, this book was fascinating, and I saw so much of myself in its pages. It’s, hands down, one of the best books I’ve read in 2024! If you’re even slightly curious about trauma, healing, or just understanding yourself better, this is 100% worth the read!